Three simple steps to the truth.

Step 1 — Tell us about them

Share their name, age, city, any nicknames, and a few photos. The more you give us, the better we can tell a real match from a coincidence.

Step 2 — We check the apps

We quietly look across the major dating apps for profiles that match what you told us. We weigh their name, age, city, and photos together, and tidy up any duplicates.

Step 3 — Get your private report

You’ll see what we found, how sure we are, and what we couldn’t confirm — all in plain words. “How sure we are” is a guide to help you decide, not a verdict.

How to read your report

• A strong name match means several details line up — it’s still not proof on its own.
• A partial city match means some of the area fits, but not all.
• “Recently active” means a public change was seen — not that we read any messages.
• We always flag anything we couldn’t confirm.